This is Me!!

   Well the question  still is there a Becca here? After we marry we become a wife and then we become Mothers. At some point we lose that, who are we as a person.  Well I know that when I became pregnant with Brandon like I said before I was just graduating HS. It came to me real quick what needed to be done. I was not going to have a child with a different last name as me. NO way. So we married in Sept. I then became my husbands wife. First loss of my identity. I was no longer Becca K. I was now Mike’s wife or the CPl. Wife. I then became a Mom. So now I am a Mom and a wife. In all the military things I did. I was not Becca I now had to introduce myself as Cpl. Wertz wife Becca. When I talked to any other wives we only new each other by who we were married to. Sad but it was the way. It is really okay though. You become proud to be the spouse of that person and besides he is your other half. He is what makes you tick and he is what makes up your family. So now today I have become a wife, a mom 4 times over. Other names I have. I am a sister, Aunt, Great Aunt, cousin, wife (he he), Mom, mother, mama, mommy, friend…………..I can go over and over. In the loss of this identity crisis I have had for 14 years 3 weeks and 2 days, Ultimately I am Becca. I am me. With out Mike, I would not be a wife or mother or Aunt. I am what makes my family tick. I am what makes my family mold and go. I am a very important part of this make up of a family. All in All lets not forget who we are as a person.

    I am that person that sometimes kills me to be. I am that nice, happy, bubbly person. The down side those who know me well can tell when something is wrong with me. Usually I am that person that just shuts down. Kind of like a dead battery……I slow down and then just shut myself completely off and become only Mom. I tend to my children because it is my job and they are my gift from God and He has given them to me to take care of. Everyone else I am closed done. I may vent to a certain person or not. I always come back around and become me again. My personality is strong and bold. I don't always say the right things and when I write emails…….well lets just say I have had complaints of why am I so mad or what not. Well really I am not. I would like to think I am a little funny but really I am a sarcastic brat so that seems to get in the way of a comment sometimes. Most people who talk to me on the phone or know me personally can tell exactly how and what I am saying something at that moment. So friends all in all this was a great ramble but I bet you all learned one new thing about me. I am Becca and I have a great fun personality. I am strong and bold but nice. I get offended easy at times especially about touchy subjects. but all in all it takes a lot to get me mad. I get frustrated rather easy. You know what though I am done with this one because you all pretty much know me because you are my friends. There are some of you who don't know me well and now you know a little more. Happy Saturday night from my home to yours. Make it a great one and enjoy the little stormy weather coming our way!