How Do We Say Goodbye??

     Tough question wouldn’t you say. So this is me sending this one out to all my friends that are “leaving”. This one goes out to a friend I am very thankful I DO NOT have to say goodbye to. Remember the conversation we had? Well here is a simple Becca Random Moment. Why is it so hard for me to say goodbye to a friend. Perhaps it is just easier not to. Sneak out and then Goodbyes are easy. I am very good for that. I regret it a lot but its easier that way. We just celebrated a friend moving to GA. What an amazing celebration of someone. To show them how much you love them and how much they will be missed. I get home and a girlfriend post on FB the movers are done and they are off in the morning. Vulnerability I do have…..As I write this I cry. I cry because I will miss them. They are a part of me. She is a part of my mommy hood clan. She made me laugh every time I saw her. Diane you are amazing!! These woman are moving away. They will be very missed by many. Also they will bless many more. I am sad that I have to say goodbye to 3 different friends in a months time. I cry for my own self not for them. the fact that I will miss them. So saying goodbye sometimes is not for me. It is not that I don’t love you because I do! It is not that I don’t care because I do! It is because well I don’t know why, maybe it is I don’t cry on front of them……needless to say the point is………….Saying Goodbye is never easy to do!

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  1. The Keevy FamilyNovember 30, 2010 at 8:32 AM

    I've had friends move away lately too, and it is hard! I can't say I am any better at it, boo!

    Jane

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